#157 Boundaries That Heal vs. Boundaries That Punish
After betrayal, boundaries become one of the most talked about — and most misunderstood — parts of healing. Many couples find themselves stuck in painful cycles where boundaries meant to create safety...
30 Apr 23min
#156 Anger After Betrayal — What It Really Means & How to Work With It with Matt Wenger, LPC, CSAT, CCPS
Anger is one of the most misunderstood emotions in betrayal trauma — but still shapes every interaction, every conversation, and every attempt at repair.In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Ma...
23 Apr 41min
#155 Resolving the Push-Pull Dynamic of the Trauma Bond with Dr. Nima Rahmany
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nima Rahmany to unpack the push-pull dynamic that so many couples experience after betrayal or relational trauma.He explains how our nervous system shifts between ...
16 Apr 49min
#154 Healing Fatigue After Betrayal: When You’re Both Just Tired
After betrayal, many couples expect the hardest part to be the initial crisis. But what often comes next is something quieter—and just as real: healing fatigue.In this episode, we talk about what happ...
9 Apr 15min
#153 Staying or Leaving After Betrayal — Discernment for Both Partners
After betrayal, one of the most painful questions couples face is: Do we stay… or do we leave?In this episode, we explore why that question feels so urgent after betrayal—and why clarity rarely comes ...
2 Apr 13min
#152 The Individual Healing That Saved Our Marriage with Chance and Crystal
Today we’re talking about something that can feel counterintuitive when a relationship is in crisis: slowing down and focusing on individual healing first. So many couples rush to fix the relationship...
26 Mar 48min
#151 Why Apologies Aren’t Enough to Heal Betrayal Trauma
Why doesn’t an apology fix betrayal trauma? If you’ve experienced infidelity, pornography addiction, or relational betrayal, you may have heard the words “I’m sorry” over and over… and yet still feel ...
19 Mar 12min
#150 What Accountability Actually Means After Betrayal (And What It Doesn’t)
Accountability is one of the most talked-about — and most misunderstood — parts of betrayal recovery.For many couples healing after infidelity or sexual betrayal, the word accountability can feel load...
12 Mar 15min
