72. I Questioned Monogamy and Heteronormativity and Couldn’t Go Back
In this episode, JJ shares how he went from being in a monogamous relationship to fully embracing his queer and non-monogamous identity. He opens up about working through shame and what it’s been like...
17 Feb 1h 6min
71. Can BDSM Be Therapeutic? with Nicolle Hodges
In this episode, Nicolle Hodges shares how she discovered the world of kink, became a lifestyle dominatrix, and realized BDSM can be profoundly therapeutic (the subject of her upcoming book!). She als...
3 Feb 1h 15min
70. Jealousy is Information with Kayla + Carl (Part 2)
In part two of my conversation with Kayla and Carl, we explore how jealousy can be a powerful source of information, helping us understand what we want more of and how we can grow. We also talk about ...
20 Jan 41min
69. Non-monogamy Saved Our Marriage with Kayla + Carl (Part 1)
Kayla and Carl, a married couple with young kids, share how non monogamy helped them move out of a decline in sexual connection and communication. While Carl was initially not interested in exploring ...
13 Jan 59min
68. Having Three DADT Partners with Alex & Skyler
In this episode, we explore what it looks like to navigate three Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell relationships in which all partners want escalation, while Skyler is not ready to step onto the relationship esca...
16 Des 20251h 3min
67. What Two Terrible Breakups Taught Me with Jesse
Today, Jesse opens up about two challenging breakups that unfolded in the context of non-monogamy, how those endings impacted his reputation within his community, and how they shaped the way he saw hi...
4 Des 20251h 9min
66. All Roads Lead To Poly with Fer (Your Host)
In this episode, I finally sit on the other side of the mic. I’m interviewed by my friend A (who you might remember from the episode with her husband J).We talk about my upbringing, what I learned abo...
18 Nov 202559min
65. Making Peace with Your Insecurities with A & J (Part 2)
In the second part of my conversation with A and J, we talk about how J learned to face and work through his insecurities instead of letting them dictate how A connects with others. We also explore ho...
4 Nov 202554min
