68. Having Three DADT Partners with Alex & Skyler
In this episode, we explore what it looks like to navigate three Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell relationships in which all partners want escalation, while Skyler is not ready to step onto the relationship esca...
16 Des 20251h 3min
67. What Two Terrible Breakups Taught Me with Jesse
Today, Jesse opens up about two challenging breakups that unfolded in the context of non-monogamy, how those endings impacted his reputation within his community, and how they shaped the way he saw hi...
4 Des 20251h 9min
66. All Roads Lead To Poly with Fer (Your Host)
In this episode, I finally sit on the other side of the mic. I’m interviewed by my friend A (who you might remember from the episode with her husband J).We talk about my upbringing, what I learned abo...
18 Nov 202559min
65. Making Peace with Your Insecurities with A & J (Part 2)
In the second part of my conversation with A and J, we talk about how J learned to face and work through his insecurities instead of letting them dictate how A connects with others. We also explore ho...
4 Nov 202554min
64. Should You Have Rules When Opening Up? with A & J (Part 1)
A and J opened up their relationship after nearly three decades together, when menopause sparked a surge in A’s libido.In this episode, we talk about their process of untangling enmeshment, how they m...
21 Okt 20251h 3min
63. Handling Big Emotions in Polyamory, Triads and Breakups with Evita Sawyers
Today, Evita Sawyers ((@Lavitaloca34) shares how she went from letting jealousy and anger take over to becoming more grounded and less reactive. We talk about her experience being in a triad and how o...
7 Okt 20251h 7min
62. When Your Partner Chooses A Nesting Partner with Roshi & Frankie
Roshi and Frankie have been navigating a long-distance polyamorous relationship for over three years, where they both have other partners. Today, we talk about:How to balance multiple relationships wi...
23 Sep 202556min
61. Meet My Secondary Partner Part 2 with John
In my conversation with John, my secondary partner, we get into how our relationship grew from friends-with-benefits into partnership. We revisit an early incident that brought up his fear of disappoi...
9 Sep 202549min
