
“We Felt Abandoned”: Therapists Process the End of SOP
This episode brings together members of John Kim’s Single on Purpose coaching team for an unfiltered, deeply human conversation about what happened when the SOP community was suddenly closed. These a...
1 Des 202553min

When Your Partner Can’t Meet Your Needs… Do You Stay or Go?
In this module of the video course, we explore what really happens inside relationships when two people are trying — and struggling — to grow. We talk about emotional language, repair, anger, shutdow...
26 Nov 202527min

Going Rogue: The Truth About Becoming Yourself
In this raw, unfiltered reflection, John shares the real story behind going rogue as a therapist — from coffee-shop sessions to walk-and-talks, to breaking every rule therapy school ever taught him. ...
24 Nov 202522min

Hard Things to Bring Up in Therapy | Stay or Go?
In today’s Q&A, we get into the real questions people ask when they’re standing at the edge of a relationship crossroads. When you’re torn between fear and intuition… when the attraction feels off… wh...
20 Nov 202518min

Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)
Full Video Course HERE All modules, worksheets, and bonus sessions. This video compiles key moments from the second core module from our relationship course - "How to Fight Without Fighting" You'll ...
19 Nov 202528min

How We Survived Therapy School (Barely)
In this raw, unfiltered conversation, John & Vanessa reveal the emotional, financial, and spiritual journey of entering — and surviving — the mental health world. From burnout and red tape to awakenin...
17 Nov 202527min

The 12 Principles of Secure Love + How to Fight Without Fighting
🎓 Full video course: HERE All modules, worksheets, and bonus sessions. This video compiles key moments from two core modules from our relationship course: Module 1 — The 12 Principles: a practical ...
12 Nov 202520min

Starting Over at 52: The Day I Chose New Lenses
At 52, John realizes how often we trade our truth for “membership” - relationships, status, the idea of success - and quietly disappear. From a house fire to shaving his head, he reframes love, loss, ...
10 Nov 202517min




















