You Are Not Broken

Episode #70!!!  OMG! Check out our sponsor and use code YANB15 for 15% off all three of their products! https://mysteryvibe.com/ www.instagram.com/mysteryvibe This is our April live recording and I was so happy to have Dr. Sonia Wright, the Midlife Sex Coach, on to share some FAQ with me! So many great coaching topics, how to think and communicate about your intimate relationship with your partner, some hormone questions at the end, and a brief intro to kink.  --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

1 Mai 20211h 9min

We talk about Dr. Goldstein's book, “Reclaiming Desire” – why he wrote it. https://amzn.to/3mZbILn His take on female desire. Masters and Johnson’s model of sexual activity Pearlman model of sexual function – Inhibition and Excitation Rosemary Basson “circular” model of sexual function Global versus situational low desire. What is the role of estrogen and desire? Addyi and Vyleesi as medications for low desire He is working on a topical Sildenafil for women. I have a lot of doctors and providers listen to the podcast – tips for them when a patient brings up desire or pain concerns? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

25 Apr 202135min

Dr. Goldstein is a gynecologist specializing in pelvic floor dysfunction, vulvar disorders and female sexual health and dysfunction. He is an author, engaging speaker and world traveler (before COVID). You can find him at www.vulvodynia.com My story on my connection with Dr. Goldstein How did he become an expert in vulvas – and tell us what the vulva is. As many as 40 percent of women who suffer from pain with sex won't seek medical care. And most medical professionals are still in the dark when it comes to women's sexual pain. The viscous pain cycle Let’s talk about your book, “When Sex Hurts” Why he wrote it https://amzn.to/3tFvn5P What is vulvodynia? Are there any “easy fixes” for vulvodynia? What is lichen sclerosis. What is the role of estrogen and lichen sclerosis? Should women use steroids and estrogen cream for life? The importance of local vaginal estrogen in preventing UTI Menopause lasts a lifetime My “not natural” rant! Testosterone for women’s health Can you talk about the role of hormonal birth control, hormone effects, and pelvic pain and dyspareunia? Low dose birth control for early menopause What is the role of trauma and abuse in pelvic pain? His other book: Female Sexual Pain Disorders https://amzn.to/3x6FXoc --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

18 Apr 202138min

This is pure gold.  Funny, quick and wicked smart, Dr. Stephanie Hart joins me today to talk everything libido! She is a family doctor in Canada who specializes in sexual health and now that Is her full time practice! Foothills Sexual Function Clinic. www.sexualfunctionclinic.com We met on a FB group! We connected when I posted a picture of “A Clinicians guide to systemic sex therapy’ Share your path about how you got to this point in your career. What is the most common sex issue between couples? What is anorgasmia? Options? What myths do non-gender conforming or non-straight couples have? What is a myth that men have about women’s sexual function? - - - What is a myth that women have about men’s sexual function? - - - The analogy of “the piggy bank” Love Languages Sharing a sexual success story https://mojoupgrade.com/ Chore-play! How can a man help a female partner who struggles with desire? Talk to us about menopause and sex – myths or special considerations. How should we talk to our partners about sex? What to do if a man has low desire or doesn’t want to talk to his partner about sex? What is your opinion on “scheduling sex” What are your tips or “must do list” for a woman with low libido. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

11 Apr 202147min

Sexual dysfunction expert! Today I am so excited to talk to Dr. Sophocles. She is a gynecologist and sexual medicine specialist practicing in Princeton NJ. She appears regularly on the radio program Sirius XM Doctor Radio. She sees women for menopause and sexual dysfunction concerns as well as general gynecology. You can find her at www.princetongyn.com Welcome! How did you get into menopause and sexual dysfunction treatment? Why do you think sexual dysfunction is so common? Biggest misconception about menopause that you see? Talk about perimenopause – when does it start? How do you transition a woman from birthcontrol/IUD to menopause hormones? When is the right time age wise to start hormones? How long can women be on hormones now? Can hormones help sex lives? Do you have any favorite non-hormonal vaginal moisturizers? @femmepharma Lichen Sclerosis Resources Let’s talk about vaginal lasers. How do you incorporate them into a woman’s plan? Tips for keeping sexually active in the mid-life? What’s in the future for you with this work? --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

4 Apr 202146min

Here is my first ever live podcast recording! I answer some IG follower’s questions about menopause and then I bring on Dr. Jessica Krant, dermatologist and functional medicine physician and vegan to discuss gut health, exercise, and how a healthy body is good for a healthy sex life. Hostage negotiating communication tips How to deal with the thought, “the other person is the whole part of the problem” Learning about trying to control others. Our manuals for other people. How not to base our happiness on how other people behave. What is “young menopause” and life expectancy data on hormone replacement therapy in “young menopause” Have you ever asked yourself “why do I want to have sex”? Hormones at your doctor office. Different types. Review of vaginal estrogen versus systemic. FDA approved bioidentical estradiol. What does bioidentical mean? NAMS 2017 guidelines on stopping hormones – what is the evidence for stopping and when? Tips and options on irritation with vaginal estrogen creams. Sunscreen and seatbelts for the pelvis – vaginal estrogen! Why we think there is such an interest in menopause right now. How sex is a vehicle for personal growth “You learn what you are accidentally tolerating” The point is the journey! #Ellen – become the person worthy of getting on Ellen! Veganism and skin care The gut and mental health. Serotonin is created in the gut – say what!! How exercise is anti-aging! Book discussed – Never Spit the Difference – Chris Voss www.instagram.com/drkranttheskinmd --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

28 Mar 20211h 4min

Dr. Sarah Boyles is an expert urogynecologist (FPMRS) with more than 15 years of clinical experience. She manages her successful group practice, publishes widely in her field and creates national FPMRS quality standards. For years, she has heard her patients regret not knowing more about their bladder function and wishing this information was easier to find outside of a doctor’s office. Recognizing the need for great pelvic floor education in the real world, she has recently pivoted to creating quality content for women that is easy to obtain through electronic resources. https://www.instagram.com/thewomensbladderdoctor/ https://thewomensbladderdoctor.com/ What is a urogynecologist? How do i know I am normal? (anatomy wise) Why is this such a common question these days What would make me abnormal Talking about bladder leakage, a huge quality of life problem for women. Women with bladder leakage are less sexually active. We talk about the two main types of bladder leakage in women – stress and urge incontinence impact of treating incontinence on sexuality and a woman's quality of life leaking DURING intercourse - a big deal! Vulvar tears during vaginal delivery and muscle injury How to talk to your doctor about your bladder --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

21 Mar 202130min

A Modern Guide to Women’s Intimacy Dr. Jennifer Jane Roelands interviews Dr. Casperson Why aren’t we talking about female intimacy? Bringing neuroscience and urology together to understand sex and desire. What kind of sex education did you get in school or in life and is that serving us? How do we talk to young people about their bodies? Tips and tricks. Tips for focusing on the present in order to focus on your sexual self. Brain training! Why context matters for women. Brain science! Why alcohol does to the brain – not all good, not all bad. Let’s talk about scheduling sex. Why orgasms are good for you. Why making sex a “to do list” isn’t great for desire. Advice for new relationships: talk about sex! Menopause and changing sexual concerns. Sleep deprivation is horrible for libido When to see a physician When to see a sex therapist Wrapping it up with desire mismatch! The Vagina Bible by Dr. Jen Gunter. https://amzn.to/30GlHuL Becoming Cliterate by Dr. Laurie Mintz. https://amzn.to/38EV2TD Come as you Are by Emily Nagoski, PhD. https://amzn.to/38CizEI https://www.meetrosy.com/ www.aasect.org Find Dr. Roelands at https://wellwomanmd.com/ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

14 Mar 202145min