Episode 11: From People-Pleasing to Peace - Escaping the Fawn Response

Episode 11: From People-Pleasing to Peace - Escaping the Fawn Response

Do you say "yes" when your body screams "no"? Discover why people-pleasing isn't a flaw—it's the fawn response, a little-known trauma survival mechanism that kept you safe but now traps you in exhaustion, resentment, and lost identity. In this raw, trauma-informed episode of Beyond Survival: A Pathway to Peace, host Naomi Stanchfield shares her personal journey from childhood abuse to reclaiming her voice, breaking down the 7 interconnected people-pleasing patterns (like boundary struggles, excessive apologizing, and over-functioning), and delivering 9 practical somatic + CBT strategies to escape fawn mode.

What you'll learn:

  • How fawning develops from fight/flight/freeze and shows up in daily life

  • The nervous system roots of guilt, codependency, and self-abandonment

  • Naomi's story: From hating Star Wars to adopting her ex's hobbies (and how she rediscovered herself)

  • Actionable tools: Body scans, micro-boundaries, self-compassion practices, and more

Perfect for trauma survivors, empaths, and anyone tired of putting others first. Join the healing conversation in our Facebook group: Beyond Survival: Healing Together.

Subscribe for weekly tools to move beyond survival into peace. Connect @beyondsurvivalpathway on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook. New episodes drop every week—your path to peace starts here.

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Episode 18: From Reacting to Responding: How to Communicate with Safety and Self-Trust

Episode 18: From Reacting to Responding: How to Communicate with Safety and Self-Trust

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Episode 17: From Drama to Trauma: The Hidden Wounds of Love

Episode 17: From Drama to Trauma: The Hidden Wounds of Love

Why are the relationships that hurt us the most often the ones we feel most bonded to? Why does chaos sometimes feel like chemistry, and why does your body still react long after the relationship ends...

5 Mars 15min

Episode 16: Love Languages: Trauma's Hidden Survival Code

Episode 16: Love Languages: Trauma's Hidden Survival Code

What if the love you crave most is the one your body learned to fear? In this eye-opening episode of Beyond Survival: A Pathway to Peace, trauma-informed coach Naomi Stanchfield reveals how the 5 Love...

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Episode 15: Attachment Styles: Survival Strategies, Not Flaws

Episode 15: Attachment Styles: Survival Strategies, Not Flaws

Ever feel like you're chasing love—or running from it? Your attachment style isn't a personality flaw; it's a survival strategy shaped by early experiences. In this episode of Beyond Survival: A Pathw...

18 Feb 23min

Episode 14: Relearning Love: Coming Home to Yourself After Trauma

Episode 14: Relearning Love: Coming Home to Yourself After Trauma

Self-love can feel cringy, confusing, or completely out of reach after trauma. Maybe you've heard "you just need to love yourself" and felt your whole body tense up. In this episode, we explore why se...

11 Feb 17min

Episode 13: Complaining as a Coping Mechanism: What Your Nervous System Is Really Saying

Episode 13: Complaining as a Coping Mechanism: What Your Nervous System Is Really Saying

*:first-child]:mt-0"> In this episode of Beyond Survival: A Pathway to Peace, we explore a deeply human habit: complaining. Rather than labeling it as "negative," we look at complaining through a tra...

4 Feb 12min

Episode 12: Beyond the Myths: The Real Truth About Healing After Trauma

Episode 12: Beyond the Myths: The Real Truth About Healing After Trauma

We've all heard the sayings — "Time heals all wounds." "You just have to get over it." "You can't love someone until you love yourself." But what if these common beliefs about trauma and healing are d...

28 Jan 18min

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