EP. 80 – Paradise in Progress w/ Ashida Onrae | The Patty Show

Your dream life doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to be in progress.

This week on The Patty Show, Patty sits down with relationship wellness leader Ashida Onrae for a conversation about building a fulfilling life and healthy relationships before making one of the biggest commitments of all—marriage.

Ashida is the Founder and CEO of The Marriage Movement, a platform dedicated to helping couples develop the emotional tools, communication skills, and self-awareness needed for lasting partnerships. Through her speaking, seminars, and her book The Top 8 Questions Every Woman Should Ask Herself Before Saying I Do, she encourages people to look inward first—because strong relationships start with personal accountability.

But Patty and Ashida’s connection actually began somewhere unexpected: the gym. What started as training sessions quickly turned into deeper conversations about dating, travel, personal growth, and building a life filled with intention and joy.

In this episode, they explore:

• Why your “paradise” can be a work in progress • The inner work required before committing to marriage • Embracing trial and error while building your dream life • Finding pleasure in the journey instead of chasing perfection • Daily rituals that help cultivate gratitude and positivity

Ashida brings humor, honesty, and wisdom to the conversation, reminding us that meaningful relationships aren’t built overnight—they’re built through self-awareness, growth, and intentional choices.

Because before you say “I do”… you should know who you’re becoming.

Declare your own paradise-in-progress with #ParadiseWithPatty

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