Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships24 Nov 2019

10 Mind-Games Narcissists Play to Confuse & Gaslight You.

CRAZY-MAKING! That's what these ten mind-games are!

#Hijackals--those relentlessly difficult, toxic people in life must always win. You've noticed that, right?

They have to be right, make your wrong, and have their way.

That why it is important to recognize these ten mind-games narcissists play to confuse you. Narcissists want you to live in uncertainty. They want the ground beneath your feet to be constantly shifting. AND, they want to be in control of those shifts.

When you come to clearly see what a #narcissist is up to, what a #Hijackal is up to, you will be able to make clearer decisions about your next best steps. When you're too worn down to see these things, get some help. I'm always here to help you. BeAClient.com

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HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

All or Nothing Thinking
Love-bombing Flattery
"Don't Be Different"
Convenient Half-Truths
The "I'm Just Kidding/You're Too Sensitive" Gambit
Generalizations and Cliches
Smear Campaigns
"The Plausability Ploy"
Exploiting Vulnerabilities
Playing on Your Emotions

You'll find that in many other episodes of this podcast, and on my YouTube channel, too.

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