It's Smart to Stop Trying to Please a Narcissist

Boundaries are what keep us feeling safe, secure, protected, in control of our own lives. When you give up your boundaries because you are in relationship with a person who does not respect them, you ...

31 Dec 20178min

Sometimes, you get so used to being talked at, and talked to, in disrespectful, dismissive ways that you don't actually think of it as verbal abuse. Then, you tend to think that either it's just the w...

27 Dec 201714min

A member asked about what to do because her mother was constantly finding fault with her.#Hijackal parents constantly either find fault or turn a blind eye to fault. One or the other, usually. I offer...

27 Dec 20179min

I'm asked so many times, "Am I going against spiritual principles to keep myself safe from my abusive spouse?" So, I wanted to answer that in an episode for you, to share my thoughts on this matter.So...

27 Dec 201710min

Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 \I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!If you want to learn more, share, ask questio...

27 Dec 201715min

LOVE-BOMBING!When a #Hijackal--a relentlessly difficult, toxic person--wants to impress you and win you over, s/he will use love-bombing.That means s/he will be everything you ever wanted and more.Pro...

27 Dec 201713min

Big question. Knowing the answer takes a whole lot of thinking…unless, of course, there is physical or sexual abuse.Then, there is only one answer: GO. Go to the police. Go to the court. Go to any len...

21 Dec 20177min

Host, Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, discusses boundaries, narcissism, entitlement and sexual predators with Christine Baumgartner, owner of ThePerfectCatch.comHarvey Weinstein might have thought that power ma...

20 Dec 201715min