It's Smart to Stop Trying to Please a Narcissist

Questions relating to: Filed for divorce - now what? My Hijackal partner is now, magically, doing everything right, everything that I'd begged for for year. Can I trust these changes??Want to work wit...

18 Dec 20179min

Sometimes you're speaking up about something you believe in. Other times, you want to fight and use a topic to make it happen. Can you tell the difference?Don't be "that person" who is always gunning ...

23 Dec 20167min

High-conflict people - there's always drama but you can't pin it down. I talk about my term, #Hijackals, for these relentlessly difficult people, these toxic people. It's important to be able to recog...

10 Dec 20167min

Anger is a challenging feeling AND something you can manage. In ANY relationship, it's super-important to be capable of recognizing and managing your anger while still acknowledging your feelings and ...

9 Nov 20162min

Blame can be destructive to your relationships. If you find yourself blaming your partner, listen to this podcast episode with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler.Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session fo...

21 Okt 20167min

Listeners can submit questions. Rhoberta Shaler, PhD answers many common questions in these videos.Want to work with Dr. Shaler? Introductory session for new clients, $97 -----------------------------...

20 Okt 201625min

SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorIS NAME-CALLING EVER OK? EVEN IN AN ARGUMENT?You lose it. You're angry, out of control, and maybe, ...

18 Okt 20161min

Anger can impact your relationships in negative ways. Every now and again, everyone experiences anger, but it's what you do with it that matters.You can express anger in ways that are healthy. Or, you...

7 Okt 20165min