Self-Belief Podcast12 Nov 2025

Blame what it really cost me (and them) with Jenny Field ep106

In this powerful solo episode, Jenny Field, Self-Belief Coach, explores the hidden cost of blame, how it once protected her but really it kept her stuck, disconnected, and powerless. She shares how shifting from blame to responsibility transformed her relationships, restored her sense of control, and opened the door to true emotional freedom.

Key Takeaways

Cost of blame
Power dynamics in relationships
Emotional responsibility
Shifting from reaction to response
The ripple effect of change

In this episode I will cover the following questions:

What is the difference between blame and responsibility?
Why do people use blame as a defence mechanism?
How does blame affect relationships?
What happens when we stop blaming others?
How can I take responsibility without feeling guilty?
What are signs of a blame cycle?
How can self-awareness help break patterns of blame?
Why do we feel safer blaming others?
How does blame keep us stuck emotionally?
What are healthy ways to express hurt without blaming?
How do I take responsibility for my emotions?
Why is it hard to admit my part in conflict?
How can I move from blame to growth?
What does self-responsibility look like in practice?
How can responsibility improve my self-belief?

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