
051. Rating Toxicity
Podcast exclusive. We can create a scale of toxicity from 0 to 10. Doing so empowers us and helps us compare what we do to what others do. I used this recently with a client who wondered if he had don...
8 Dec 202225min

050. How Do Psychometrics Help Us Understand Relationships With Narcissists?
When we're stressed, our personality can change. Narcissists like stressing us. That tells us... it can be helpful to dig a bit deeper ;-)
29 Nov 202216min

049. Are Narcissists Overextending You?
Our personality changes between when we are relaxed, between our everyday self, and when we are stressed or overextended. Perhaps this holds a key to understanding ourselves better?
24 Nov 202210min

048. Heads I Win, Tails YOU Lose: Narcissist Games, Sleep, and More - From YouTube Livestream
Watch on YouTube with all visuals and drawings here: https://youtu.be/X7sGDTJCMhA Relationships with narcissists feel like we're playing heads or tails: heads they win, tails you lose. Sounds fun? W...
31 Okt 20221h 13min

047. You Have More Support Than You Know :-)
Life can feel really lonely, especially after being with a narcissist or a toxic person. When I travelled to Kazakhstan, I met these therapists who did body work on me. Despite not speaking the same l...
26 Okt 202210min

046. Narcissists DON'T Want Solutions To Their Problems
Watch the video here: Three stories of the same #narcissist who loved artificially creating unnecessary problems in order to get attention, play victim, and extract attention from his friends. But we ...
17 Okt 202210min

045. Narcissists Don't Want Us To Build A Life
Narcissists exhaust us. Why? Because they always want attention. That means they don't let us have any space for building anything meaningful. And, as we fail to progress, they probably get frustrated...
3 Okt 202210min

044. Reframing Life, Narcissists, Freedom, Emotions and Pain
Watch the conversation on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/y92Didt7WH8 What if "repressing emotions" was the mistake that makes us vulnerable to narcissists? And, even if we avoid them, doesn't it just ...
30 Sep 202256min



















