
096. "Is It Even Knoweable?" - Debunking Narcissists Ridiculous Claims
Narcissists will claim to know a lot. They will appear certain. And yet, many of the things they claim to know are... unknowable. Or it is not possible for them to be as certain as they are. In this e...
10 Apr 202430min

095. Debunking Terrible Suggestions On Dealing With Narcissists
I just came across an article "what words can destroy a narcissist" on some website. I think it was generated by AI. And it was full of really toxic ideas and thought structures. I recorded my debunki...
1 Apr 202425min

094. 6 Manipulation Tricks Cults and Narcissists Use: How To Recognise Them and Ungaslight Ourselves
Cults and Narcissists use nearly identical manipulation tricks that are very effective - until we recognise them and debunk them. In this episode I share 6 of these tricks they play and make some sugg...
31 Mars 202424min

093. 11 Mistakes Around Narcissism Most People Make
Here is a sneak preview of some ideas I explore in the book I am writing on narcissism. I finally found an angle I think is relevant and would love to hear what you think. I list the 11 mistakes below...
17 Mars 202430min

092. 10 Signs of Narc Logic / Mindvirus - And Why They're BS
Narcissists use convoluted / stupid thinking to manipulate others and defend low quality ideas. Once we recognise HOW narcissists think, it becomes easier to avoid being manipulated and to avoid embra...
3 Mars 202429min

091. Therapy & Narcissism: Mistakes To Avoid & My Experience
Is therapy helpful after being with a narcissist? Is all therapy equal? What are some things to look out for? What was my experience working with a therapist through a breakup WITHOUT being aware of n...
1 Mars 202429min

090. "Out of Line"? Or... Healthy Boundaries?
When a friend's new partner starts employing Isolation Tactics, or Loyalty Challenge, when they are trying to create conflict between the friend and their Support Group, what is really going on? And i...
20 Feb 202429min

089. How Narcissists Gaslight Us With Rupars (And What Is A Rupar?)
Narcissists use Rupars to gaslight us. The technique is obnoxious, and effective, and can make us hallucinate they are right, and we are wrong. So what is a Rupar, how does it work, and how can we avo...
14 Feb 202420min



















