
147 How to Build Healthy Differentiation
Differentiation is one of the pillars of conscious relationships—but it doesn’t just happen, we have to actively practice differentiation over time. When we don’t, there will be symptoms: If you’ve be...
13 Apr 202441min

146 Will non-monogamy make it possible to stay together?
We get this question a lot. But there are some questions lying under the surface of this one… first and foremost, will non-monogamy make it possible for us to not deal with all the shit that we just d...
6 Apr 202435min

145 How can I handle dysregulation in my relationships?
AKA–what do I do when everything in my relationship goes sideways?? To kick off season nine of PWF, we’re getting vulnerable and digging deep. We share our personal experiences with relational dysregu...
30 Mars 202450min

144 Handling Polyamory Problems: Q&A with Polywise Authors Jessica Fern and David Cooley
We’re back with Jessica Fern and David Cooley, co-authors of the incredible book Polywise, and this time they’re answering your questions. We cover so much in this episode, but it’s all through the le...
16 Mars 202457min

143 Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex in a Changing World with Author Dr. Eric FitzMedrud
Consent can be a difficult topic for everyone. And there's a particularly large gap in our cultural conversations, sexual education, and practical skill development when it comes to consent and men. S...
2 Mars 202453min

142 Enmeshment: Are you over-functioning in your relationship?
Enmeshment doesn’t have to be a big scary subject. In this episode, we’re breaking it down into two simple (but super important!) pieces: over-functioning and under-functioning. If you suspect you mig...
17 Feb 202440min

141 Being Polywise with Jessica Fern and David Cooley
Individuation, enmeshment, symbiosis, co-dependence, individualism, interdependence… how on Earth can we navigate through all these paradigms and bring balance to our relationships?? Luckily, in this ...
3 Feb 202458min
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140 [Replay] Balancing Individuation & Secure Attachment with Polysecure Author Jessica Fern
Jessica will be back next week with her coauthor David Cooley. Prime the pump by listening to this episode! ~ It's normal to want your relationship to feel secure. It's normal to want to individuate. ...
20 Jan 202454min



















