EPISODE 113: Stop Turning "Hunger Directed Eating" Into a Diet

EPISODE 113: Stop Turning "Hunger Directed Eating" Into a Diet

On this week's episode of the Fat Murder Podcast, co-coach, Steph Miramontes joins me to discuss how NOT to turn Hunger Directed Eating into another weight-focused diet.

As I tell my clients, these are not rules. This is how you take care of yourself in a loving way. They are "If love could speak to you about food" guidelines.

They are designed to teach you how to love yourself with food. As dieters, you have learned how to use food as a way to force, shame, and guilt yourself.

In the podcast, we discuss:
  • How having a healthy relationship with food isn't about force, shame, or guilt
  • In this process, there is only kindness, compassion, and patience
  • How to develop the eating habits of a natural eater who feels relax and in control around food instead of an anxious stress ball reacting out of fear
Any time you start beating yourself up for the way you've eaten, you are not following the program. You are dieting.

Think of it this way:

When was the last time you felt empowered and positive when your boss or a parent ridiculed you?⁠
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When was the last time you felt compelled to do the dishes or the laundry after your partner put you down for never doing them?⁠
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It doesn't work then and it doesn't work when you do it to yourself, either.
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The opposite is likely true.

When your boss, parent, or partner notices something positive about you or something you did, it probably makes you want to do that thing more.
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Bullying doesn't inspire change. Love does. Give this week's episode and tell us what you learned about yourself and how you can put it into action today.

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EPISODE 141: Why You Keep Eating When You're Not Hungry (Even on a GLP-1)

EPISODE 141: Why You Keep Eating When You're Not Hungry (Even on a GLP-1)

Fitness coach Rachel Godfrey showed her normal dinner in a reel, and the comments were full of people asking if she's on a GLP-1. She's been fit for decades, but sure, it must be the shot.   If she's ...

10 Marras 31min

EPISODE 140: Overeating to Be Polite Is Costing You More Than Calories

EPISODE 140: Overeating to Be Polite Is Costing You More Than Calories

You can track every bite and still overeat most nights. Here's one sneaky reason why.   A listener's partner cooks late, after she's already eaten, so she has a small plate anyway to say thank you. I ...

3 Marras 22min

EPISODE 139: Why You Fall Off Track When Life Gets Hard and How to Bounce Back Faster

EPISODE 139: Why You Fall Off Track When Life Gets Hard and How to Bounce Back Faster

You'd never quit your job over one bad meeting. And you'd never divorce your spouse over one argument. So why does one overeat make you quit your entire plan?   You've probably decided the answer is w...

27 Loka 22min

EPISODE 138: Your Brain Is a Liar: How to Walk Away When It Wants "Just a Little More"

EPISODE 138: Your Brain Is a Liar: How to Walk Away When It Wants "Just a Little More"

"It's just a few bites." "A little won't hurt."   Cute. Also total BS.   You're full. You know you're full. And yet there you are, shaving one more sliver off the brownie pan to "even it out" until th...

20 Loka 28min

EPISODE 137: The 3 Psychological Reasons Why You Self-Sabotage (and How to Stop)

EPISODE 137: The 3 Psychological Reasons Why You Self-Sabotage (and How to Stop)

You've been "so good" for two weeks. Your jeans button without a fight. Then one night you're in the pantry with a box of Goldfish wondering what on earth just happened.   And no, it doesn't mean you ...

13 Loka 27min

EPISODE 136: Why Saying "No" to the Extra Bites at the End of a Meal Feels Impossible

EPISODE 136: Why Saying "No" to the Extra Bites at the End of a Meal Feels Impossible

"I don't want to deprive myself."   If you've ever said that right before going back for seconds, this episode is for you.   You wear a seatbelt every time you drive. You go to bed instead of watching...

6 Loka 21min

EPISODE 135: Why Labeling Foods "Good" and "Bad" Makes You Overeat

EPISODE 135: Why Labeling Foods "Good" and "Bad" Makes You Overeat

You were on point all week. Then somebody brought cookies to the office, you had one, and the whole day was shot. So you finished the box and swore you'd start fresh Monday.   So why didn't you?   Coa...

29 Syys 33min

EPISODE 134: Why Most Habits Don't Stick, and What Actually Works

EPISODE 134: Why Most Habits Don't Stick, and What Actually Works

100 days is not a small number. It's enough time to build a habit, stress-test it during the holidays, and walk into January already ahead instead of starting from zero.   This week, Coach Steph and I...

22 Syys 36min

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