E281: Am I the Asshole? Kissing After Oral, Weight Gain, and Bad Sex

Would you kiss your partner after they went down on you? What would you do if your partner wasn't enjoying the sex you were having? And how would you handle it if weight gain started affecting your physical intimacy? Oh, we've got some opinions about these ones. It's time for another round of Am I the Asshole?, where we read your real-life relationship stories, unpack the bedroom disagreements, and give our verdicts on who's in the wrong. In this episode, you'll hear: The husband who loves going down on his wife, but has some very specific rules about what happens afterward Whether refusing to kiss your partner after oral sex is a reasonable boundary or a bedroom double standard How weight gain can affect physical intimacy, and what happens when partners disagree about it What to do when one partner isn't enjoying the sex they're having Our verdicts on each story, including where we agree, disagree, and think things get a little more complicated Think you already know who's in the wrong? You might change your mind once you hear the other side. Grab your partner, press play, and see if you agree with our verdicts. We have a feeling a few of these are going to spark some pretty interesting conversations. Want to give your partner a few more reasons to say, "Do that again"? Let's talk about putting those hands and mouths to VERY good use. The Ultimate Foreplay Guides give you step-by-step techniques for fingering, oral sex, handjobs, and blowjobs, with expert guidance on exactly how to touch, tease, and pleasure your partner. You'll get separate guides for vulvas and penises, packed with techniques you can practice, experiment with, and make your own. And who knows? You might just discover a new favorite move tonight. Check out The Ultimate Foreplay Guides here: https://vmtherapy.com/foreplay ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR ========================== 👏Thanks Cure. Cure’s the electrolyte mix I’ve started reaching for daily. With clean ingredients and nothing artificial, it’s become easy to stay hydrated. Find it on Amazon or use the code PILLOWTALKS for 20% off. ➡︎https://curehydration.com/PILLOWTALKS 👏Thanks Blissy. Because you’re a listener, Blissy is offering 60-nights risk-free PLUS use code PILLOWPOD to get an additional 30% off. Your skin and hair will thank you!➡︎https://blissy.com/PILLOWPOD 👏Thanks Quince. Upgrade your everyday. Download the Quince app for app-exclusive offers. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada too. ➡︎https://quince.com/pillow Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices