When Anxious People Try to Perfectly Fix ... EVERYTHING (Episode 74)

When Anxious People Try to Perfectly Fix ... EVERYTHING (Episode 74)

Humans will often make the mistake of trying to apply our analytical and problem solving skills in areas where they do not belong. Anxious people - people struggling with anxiety disorders - do this all the time.


  • Are you trying to fix how you feel?
  • Are you trying to solve your anxiety and figure it out?
  • Are you in the habit of trying to control how you feel, engineering away bad feelings and trying to manufacture only good feelings?
  • Are you always on the lookout for more tools, tips, techniques, and instructions on what's good "for anxiety?"


These are hints that you might be a fixer or a perfectionist or both, and that you might be trying to fix or solve your anxiety .... perfectly. If this is you, tune in to this episode of Disordered for more on the fixing trap and how what seems like a good idea can often backfire and make things worse.

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Relationship Anxiety and Relationship OCD (Episode 061)

Relationship Anxiety and Relationship OCD (Episode 061)

This week on Disordered we're looking at anxiety focused on relationships, specifically a form of OCD known as Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD - like all forms of OCD - will glue itself to things that ...

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Nocturnal Panic Attacks and Scary Dreams (Episode 60)

Nocturnal Panic Attacks and Scary Dreams (Episode 60)

WHAT ABOUT NOCTURNAL PANIC ATTACKS? HOW DO WE DEAL WITH THOSE? Nocturnal panic attacks are scary, disturbing, disruptive, and often feel like they are different from any other kind of panic attack. A...

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Values Driven Anxiety Recovery (Episode 59)

Values Driven Anxiety Recovery (Episode 59)

WHAT DOES "VALUES DRIVEN RECOVERY" MEAN? Anxiety recovery can be seen as one long journey away from fear driven behavior and toward behaviors that support the things we really value in life. This wee...

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Anxiety And Tension, Soreness, Twitching and Weakness (Episode 58)

Anxiety And Tension, Soreness, Twitching and Weakness (Episode 58)

BUT WHAT ABOUT WHEN YOU'RE TENSE AND SORE? HOW CAN YOU HANDLE THAT? This is one of those questions we get asked all the time. In this episode of Disordered, we're taking a look at how tension, sorene...

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Anxiety Recovery ... What Am I Supposed To Think About? (Ep 57)

Anxiety Recovery ... What Am I Supposed To Think About? (Ep 57)

"I know I'm not supposed to focus inward or engage with my anxious or intrusive thoughts, but what am I supposed to think about?!" This week Josh and Drew answer an excellent question from a listener...

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What Anxiety Recovery Lens Are You Looking Through? (Episode 56)

What Anxiety Recovery Lens Are You Looking Through? (Episode 56)

WHAT RECOVERY LENS ARE YOU LOOKING THROUGH? This week Drew and Josh take a bit of an unexpected turn to explore ways that CBT and exposure-based approaches to recovery can fall short. Recovery can't ...

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Help! My Nervous System Is Dysregulated! (Ep 55)

Help! My Nervous System Is Dysregulated! (Ep 55)

MY NERVOUS SYSTEM IS DYSREGULATED! This week Drew and Josh get up close and personal with "nervous system dysregulation". This is a term that might have some benefit when dealing with issues like stre...

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The Great OCD Whistle Stop Tour of 2024 (Episode 54)

The Great OCD Whistle Stop Tour of 2024 (Episode 54)

This week on Disordered we're taking a grand tour around the OCD loop! Josh and Drew talk about pure-O, somatic, and "traditional" obsessive compulsive disorder subtypes. While not every possible th...

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