314. 5 signs they're the 'one'

314. 5 signs they're the 'one'

"What makes someone “the one”? There is so much pressure tied into that question. Instead, it might be better to ask: how can we focus on recognising the key pillars of long-lasting, fulfilling love? In today’s episode, we explore some fundamental characteristics so you can discern whether they are “the one” for you, while also acknowledging that our soulmates are often built, rather than found.

We explore:

  • Unpicking the “one” narrative
  • The difference between initial spark and lasting connection
  • Love as a mutual, ongoing choice
  • The fundamental pillars of long lasting relationships - shared values, emotional proximity, and reciprocal effort
  • The role of intuition vs anxiety
  • The need for authenticity and growth within a partnership

If you’re feeling the pressure to pick the ‘right’ person, or want to learn about the fundamentals of deep connection, this episode is for you.


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43. Hustle culture and burnout

43. Hustle culture and burnout

This week talk about the cultural phenomenon of hustle culture, the rise and grind age of work and professional success. We also discuss the role of burnout in this relationship and how we can recentr...

14 Syys 202239min

41. Situationships - boundaries, vulnerability and wanting more

41. Situationships - boundaries, vulnerability and wanting more

This week we discuss the tricky topic of situationships in our 20’s - the grey space between casual and committed. How do we establish good boundaries in these relationships or avoid them to begin wit...

29 Elo 202244min

40. When you feel directionless

40. When you feel directionless

What can we do when we feel lost and directionless in our 20’s? It’s a common feeling and one shared by many but when you’re in a rut it can be hard to get our. In this episode we discuss actions we c...

23 Elo 202234min

39. The psychology of hangiexty

39. The psychology of hangiexty

On this episode we talk about the interactions between alcohol and the brain. Alcohol can be a huge part of our lives in our 20’s, as can anxious feelings the morning after drinking so it’s important ...

7 Elo 202233min

38. Healing unhealthy attachment styles

38. Healing unhealthy attachment styles

We discuss the four attachment styles and their implications for the relationships we have in our 20’s. Where did the idea of attachment come from, how relevant are they and can we heal disordered pat...

31 Heinä 202237min

37. How to develop emotional intelligence in your 20’s

37. How to develop emotional intelligence in your 20’s

This week we discuss the secrets and successes of emotional intelligence and how to cultivate and grow your EQ in your 20’s. Why is it so important? What are the benefits? And how can we be the most e...

18 Heinä 202231min

36. The Psychology of Grief

36. The Psychology of Grief

What do we do when we’ve lost someone we’ve loved? In this weeks episode we talk about the confusion and anger, the safeness, following the loss of a loved one. How do we move on and continue to hold ...

3 Heinä 202231min

35. BONUS EPISODE: “Don’t talk about us on the podcast”

35. BONUS EPISODE: “Don’t talk about us on the podcast”

The girls are back for an episode on love, friendship, first impressions and stereotypesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

28 Kesä 202257min

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