Episode 5: Limerence

In this 5th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Emily explore limerence, defined as an involuntary infatuation that leads to placing someone on a pedestal and loving the idea of them more than the reality. The co-host shares her experience of staying in a four-year relationship despite early red flags, realizing she was more in love with being in love than with the person himself. They discuss how limerence can feel especially powerful for individuals with ADHD and autism, who may struggle with connection and latch onto the attention and validation.The conversation dives into how undiagnosed neurodivergence, attachment styles, and family expectations can prolong unhealthy relationships. With an anxious and avoidant dynamic at play, they examine how these patterns repeat and why breaking them requires intentional boundaries. Dr. Kojo shares his personal rule of limiting early time spent together to avoid emotional overinvestment, while emphasizing the importance of setting realistic expectations and maintaining separate sources of dopamine and identity within relationships.The episode concludes with a discussion on autistic regression, explaining how years of masking can lead to burnout and a temporary loss of functioning that is often misunderstood as laziness. The hosts highlight the importance of awareness, boundaries, and understanding the nervous system when navigating relationships as a neurodivergent individual.Find us on all platforms at: @neurodivergentstruggles

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Episoder(15)

Ep 15 | Neurodivergent Struggles: AuDHD in Modern Dating

In this 15th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Sydney talk about how ADHD, autism, and modern dating intersect in today’s world. They discuss the challenges of balancing personal...

30 Jul 36min

Episode 14: Dealing with Change

In this 14th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Sydney talk about embracing change, navigating ADHD and autism, and stepping outside of familiar routines. Together, they discuss w...

16 Jul 31min

Episode 13: Mood Swings

In this 13th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Emily explore the emotional intensity of mood swings in people with ADHD and autism. Emily shares how seemingly small frustrations ...

3 Jul 40min

Episode 12: Avoidance

In this 12th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Emily explore avoidance and how it shows up in the lives of neurodivergent people. They discuss procrastination, executive dysfunct...

11 Jun 52min

Episode 11: Night Time Routine

In this 11th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Emily discuss the challenges neurodivergent people face with sleep, nighttime routines, and getting out of bed in the morning. They...

28 Mai 44min

Episode 10: Being Diagnosed with Autism and ADHD Later in Life

In this 10th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Emily discuss what it feels like to be diagnosed with autism and ADHD later in life. Emily reflects on being diagnosed in her late ...

14 Mai 1h 3min

Episode 9: Trauma & CPTSD

In this 9th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Emily explore trauma, PTSD, and CPTSD through the lens of autism and ADHD. They discuss how many late-diagnosed neurodivergent indiv...

30 Apr 40min

Episode 8: Sensory Overload

In this 8th episode of Neurodivergent Struggles, Dr. Kojo Sarfo and Emily explore sensory overload and how it affects individuals with ADHD and autism. They discuss common triggers such as strong smel...

16 Apr 41min