7. "Why can't I stop thinking about my ex?"

7. "Why can't I stop thinking about my ex?"

  • Thinking about an ex-partner is a normal and common experience after a breakup, as the brain prioritizes storing emotionally-charged information. [06:28]
  • Instead of trying to stop thinking about an ex, the focus should be on neutralizing those associations and creating new positive memories. [09:10]
  • Bringing self-compassion and kindness to oneself during the healing process is crucial.
  • It's possible to hold two seemingly contradictory thoughts at the same time, such as missing an ex while also knowing that being together is not the right thing. [17:46]
  • Experimenting with small triggers or activities associated with an ex and rewiring them with new positive experiences can help the brain create new associations.

If this resonates, head to www.forgetyourexnow.com to book a consultation call with Sarah to go deeper into rewiring your brain for your own success.

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