The Hidden Drama: Why Protest Behaviors Sabotage Love

The Hidden Drama: Why Protest Behaviors Sabotage Love

Uncover the hidden drama sabotaging marriages everywhere! Marriage coach Christa explores protest behaviors - the unconscious patterns where spouses criticize, withdraw, create drama, or become passive-aggressive instead of directly communicating their needs. Discover why your partner acts out instead of speaking up through specific protest behaviors for each Enneagram type, from Type 1 criticism when feeling unappreciated to Type 9 passive resistance when feeling unheard. Learn why we protest instead of asking directly (fear, past rejection, learned patterns) and discover the "protest to request" translation guide that ends sabotage and creates real connection. Includes practical solutions for recognizing your own hidden drama patterns and responding to your partner's underlying needs rather than their difficult behavior. Watch on YouTube! Want to get healthy together as a couple this Fall? Get early bird rates right here for your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠ here! ⁠⁠⁠ Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your phone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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The Three Types of Enneagram Twos in Marriage

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Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Twos in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Two? Find our guide right here!  Head...

3 Aug 202212min

Finding Spiritual Growth with the Enneagram w/Author Meredith Boggs

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As we pause to reflect on all of the growth of the seasons past, we transition to new spaces with spiritual growth in mind. Christa is joined by author Meredith W. Boggs, Type Eight as we stop for som...

1 Aug 202252min

The Three Types of Enneagram Ones in Marriage

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Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Ones in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 1? Find our guide right here!  Head o...

27 Jul 202214min

Finding the Most Loving Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage with Expedition Marriage

Finding the Most Loving Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage with Expedition Marriage

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Enneagram Instincts in Where the Crawdads Sing with Katy

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22 Jul 202257min

E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 9 Wants in Marriage

E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 9 Wants in Marriage

Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Nines want in marriage and fami...

20 Jul 202211min

Instincts in Intimacy with Sexpert, Sam E. Greenberg, Enneagram 5

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