The Hidden Drama: Why Protest Behaviors Sabotage Love

The Hidden Drama: Why Protest Behaviors Sabotage Love

Uncover the hidden drama sabotaging marriages everywhere! Marriage coach Christa explores protest behaviors - the unconscious patterns where spouses criticize, withdraw, create drama, or become passive-aggressive instead of directly communicating their needs. Discover why your partner acts out instead of speaking up through specific protest behaviors for each Enneagram type, from Type 1 criticism when feeling unappreciated to Type 9 passive resistance when feeling unheard. Learn why we protest instead of asking directly (fear, past rejection, learned patterns) and discover the "protest to request" translation guide that ends sabotage and creates real connection. Includes practical solutions for recognizing your own hidden drama patterns and responding to your partner's underlying needs rather than their difficult behavior. Watch on YouTube! Want to get healthy together as a couple this Fall? Get early bird rates right here for your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠ here! ⁠⁠⁠ Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your phone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 8 Wants in Marriage

E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 8 Wants in Marriage

Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Eights want in marriage and fam...

13 Jul 202213min

Bringing Sexual Desire Back to Marriage

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11 Jul 202223min

E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 7 Wants in Marriage

E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 7 Wants in Marriage

Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Sevens want in marriage and fam...

6 Jul 202211min

Masculine and Feminine Energy in Marriage

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4 Jul 202219min

E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 6 Wants in Marriage

E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 6 Wants in Marriage

Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Sixes want in marriage and fami...

29 Jun 202210min

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E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 5 Wants in Marriage

E + M Shorts Series: What a Type 5 Wants in Marriage

Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Fives want in marriage and fami...

22 Jun 202210min

Bringing Health into Your Marriage Adventures with Jenn & Rob Johnson

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