071: Ask David — Expressing Anger, Narcissistic Bosses, Social Media Bullying
What do I do if I am using the Five Secrets and I feel angry? If I use the Disarming Technique, isn't there a danger that I might not express my own feelings? And isn't this the same as your "Hidden E...
15 Jan 201832min
070: The Five Secrets (Part 6) — Stroking
8 Jan 201824min
069: The Five Secrets (Part 5) — "I Feel..." Technique
1 Jan 201828min
068: The Five Secrets (Part 4) — Inquiry
David and Fabrice discuss Inquiry, the third of the Five Secrets of Effective Communication. Inquiry means asking gentle, probing questions to learn more about what the other person is thinking and f...
25 Des 201750min
067: The Five Secrets (Part 3) — Thought and Feeling Empathy
David addresses a question submitted by a listener after he heard the introductory podcasts on the Five Secrets of Effective Communication. He questioned the value of the Disarming Technique, and prot...
18 Des 201744min
066: The Five Secrets (Part 2) — Disarming Technique
David, Helen and Fabrice focus on the Disarming Technique, which is the first of the Five Secrets of Effective Communication. The definition of the Disarming Technique is finding truth in what the ot...
11 Des 201735min
065: The Five Secrets (Part 1) — Overview
Is there someone in your life who just won't listen? won't open up? always has to be right? always has to get his or her way? doesn't seem to understand how you feel? doesn't seem to care? is relent...
4 Des 201735min
064: Ask David — Quick Cure for Excessive Worrying!
How would you treat excessive worrying? a listener asks. David describes a new patient who had struggled with 53 years of failed therapy for excessive, relentless worrying, and describes how she was "...
27 Nov 201716min
