184. Chasing vs Pursuing: When To Show Interest (And When To Move On)

184. Chasing vs Pursuing: When To Show Interest (And When To Move On)

In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between healthy pursuit and unhealthy chasing in dating, because yes, there’s a big difference. I share personal stories of times I chased and was chased, plus the subtle signs someone’s just not that into you (and what to do when that’s the case). You’ll learn how to check your own behavior, spot disinterest early, and avoid wasting energy trying to prove your worth. I also answer listener questions about texting, planning, and "being too available," and wrap up with a new segment, Text Support, and a dating dilemma about a fast-burn romance.


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170. Feeling A Shift In Their Energy? Here's What It Means And What To Do

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169. Dating With ADHD And Tips For Neurodivergent Daters w/ Christal Wang

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168. How To Tell If You're Being Love Bombed Or If It's Genuine Interest (throwback)

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167. A Deep Dive Into Burned Haystack Dating Method w/ Dr. Jennie Young

167. A Deep Dive Into Burned Haystack Dating Method w/ Dr. Jennie Young

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22 Apr 202550min

166. You Need These 3 Qualities To Be Good At Dating (And Why It Matters)

166. You Need These 3 Qualities To Be Good At Dating (And Why It Matters)

In this episode, I'm breaking down the three C's of being good at dating: character, curiosity, and confidence. I'll share how each one plays into being a great date, and why that matters in the first...

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165. Slow Burn Chemistry, Flaky First Dates & Risking A Friendship For Love

165. Slow Burn Chemistry, Flaky First Dates & Risking A Friendship For Love

In this episode, I'm diving into five dating dilemmas from listeners! If you want to submit a longer question for me to answer on the podcast or YouTube, here's the link. Tune in to hear my advice on ...

15 Apr 202523min

164. Dating Standards: Are You Too Picky or Not Picky Enough?

164. Dating Standards: Are You Too Picky or Not Picky Enough?

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