
382 SelfWork: The Many Gifts of Fear
I remember my dad telling me that the main thing he feared in life was to have a heart attack when he was still young. His dad had had that happen and it killed him when my father was only a teenager....
23 Feb 202424min

381 SelfWork: How to Talk About Your Depression
I was honored to offer a TEDx talk this past year in Boca Raton, Florida. It's entitled "How to recognize perfectly hidden depression," and in it, I describe clients I've seen who'd never have seemed ...
16 Feb 202423min

380 SelfWork: How to Get to Forgiveness - Through Anger and Empathy
I’ve stayed away from the topic of forgiveness here on SelfWork. Why? Because the word itself means very different things to different people – especially due to your culture or religious belief. But ...
9 Feb 202423min

379 SelfWork: What's the Better Way of Saying "My Feelings Are Hurt"?
“My feelings were hurt” is a phrase very commonly used. We even use it when we talk to our children. “Did someone hurt your feelings?” It’s kind of interesting when you think about it. Instead of ask...
2 Feb 202422min

378 SelfWork: Tina Turner Takes A Seat: How to Accept Change In Your Family
I’ve pulled what is the most downloaded episode of SelfWork’s history today because I've had to step off the stage again in my work to allow my body and mind to heal. Two weeks ago, I was in a huge hu...
26 Jan 202419min

377 SelfWork: Recognizing When Worry and "What If" Questions Paralyze You
So many of us are living "what if" lives, meaning that we're not looking at the present and for opportunities that might be right in front of us. Instead we're worrying about the "what ifs" or "what i...
19 Jan 202425min

376 SelfWork: Three Unexpected Facets of Grief
Norman Lear is someone whose work, talent, and creativity I’ve admired for a long time. I've used an interview that he gave before he died as my inspiration for this episode, when he said about his ow...
12 Jan 202423min

375 SelfWork: Knowing You're 'Mom Enough": A Conversation with Author Rachel Marie Martin
When I heard the name of the book my SelfWork guest - Rachel Marie Martin - has written, I knew I wanted her on the show. What's the title? Mom Enough: Inspiring Letters for theWonderfully Exhausting...
5 Jan 202440min




















