182 Q&A Quickie: What should I do when my partner wants gender-based rules in non-monogamy?
Gender-based relationship rules might seem like an easy solution to difficult feelings that come up in non-monogamous relationships, but they often mask deeper issues that deserve our attention. Restr...
14 Dec 202429min
181 Q&A Quickie: Privacy vs. Transparency—How do I feel safer?
Navigating privacy and transparency in relationships can feel like walking a tightrope—especially when you and your partners have different comfort levels with information sharing. If you've ever felt...
7 Dec 202435min
180 Hyper-Individualism vs Healthy Autonomy: Am I The A**hole?
How do you tell the difference between being selfish and practicing healthy autonomy? You probably won’t be surprised to hear that it’s complicated! The line between hyper-individualism and differenti...
30 Nov 202435min
179 One Kid’s Reflection on Being Raised by Polyamorous Parents
One of the most common concerns we hear about non-monogamous relationships is “but what about the kids?!?” We have a lot to say in response… but in this special episode, you get to hear it from one of...
23 Nov 202429min
178 The One to Share with Your Concerned Family Members
Are you struggling to talk to your friends and family about your non-monogamous identity? Whether you’re unsure how to start the conversation or you’ve tried before and it didn’t go so well, we’re her...
16 Nov 202434min
177 Shadow Dance: Navigating Projections in Relationships
The word projection gets thrown around a lot these days, often in an accusatory way (think, “so-and-so is projecting!”). But projection is actually a normal, unconscious psychological process that sho...
9 Nov 202449min
176 Dismantling Defensiveness
Defensiveness feels like a good way to protect yourself from harm in relationships, but it’s usually more effective at closing yourself off from personal growth, peace, connection, intimacy, multiplic...
2 Nov 202441min
175 Coming Out as Non-Monogamous: Risks, Rewards, & How To Get Ready
Coming out as non-monogamous can bring its own set of challenges and concerns, especially if you also hold other marginalized identities. And maintaining the social appearance of monogamy can come at ...
26 Okt 202442min
