
Discarded By A Hijackal? 10 Ways To Resist The Pull To Return - Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
You've likely turned yourself into a pretzel to please a toxic person. That's what they want. You can stand on your head and spit wooden nickels for a decade, and you cannot please them beyond a hot m...
20 Jan 202022min

How to Create Good Relationship Habits Once the Hijackal is Gone
You made it! You have ended the relationship with the toxic, difficult person, the #Hijackal! Good for you! You know what is best for you, and your family.It takes too long to be truly free from a #Hi...
12 Jan 202021min

DRAMA: Who needs it??
Drama! It keeps you walking on eggshells, wondering when the next supposedly offence on your part will be jumped on. Or, an event will be blown out of proportion. That event may or not have actually h...
4 Jan 20209min

Finding Clarity in the Midst of Hijackal® Chaos & Confusion Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
Keeping you in chaos, confusion, and uncertainty is a hallmark of a #Hijackal®. They do it to keep you on guard and off balance. That's a very shaky combination that destroys any possibility of stabil...
29 Dec 201913min

Are the Holidays Duty, Dread or Delight? 3 Empowering Tips - Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
Holidays or any celebration can be stressful. It may be exciting--which is stressful in itself--and it may be distressful.Give yourself permission to recognize and act on the three empowering tips for...
21 Dec 201919min

Insightful Conversation with Patricia Evans, Author of The Verbally Abusive Relationship
What a pleasure and honor to have this deep conversation with Patricia Evans, author of The Verbally Abusive Relationship. !Patricia Evans stepped up, spoke up, and spoke out about verbal abuse. Her f...
15 Dec 201941min

How Having a Hijackal Parent Can Mess With Your Life & Relationships
When you have a #Hijackal® parent, you tend to model their traits, or be set up to be the unwitting "prey" for other predators like them. Having a #Hijackal parent can turn you into "Hijackal Bait." H...
9 Dec 201914min

6 Steps to Keep You Safer Around Hijackals & Other Toxic Folks. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
Difficult, defensive, and destructive behaviors can turn into dangerous ones! These six steps to keep you safer around toxic people, around #Hijackals, are absolutely vital to recognize and take. Keep...
2 Dec 201929min



















