41. Elana: The Sure Thing

41. Elana: The Sure Thing

What happens when intimacy stops being spontaneous and starts being intentional?

In this episode of 34o, I’m joined by Elana, who shares how a simple weekly ritual — what she calls The Sure Thing — transformed her relationship after years of disconnection.

This is not about technique.
It’s not about fixing desire and it’s not about performance.

It’s about creating safety, predictability and space — so presence, intimacy and closeness can return.

We talk about ritual, nervous system regulation, emotional honesty, and why intimacy often deepens when we stop waiting for the “right moment” and instead create a container where connection can land.

Listen if you’re curious about how small, intentional practices
can shift not just how you relate, but how safe your relationship feels.

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40. Samantha Spiro: Why We Protect Ourselves From the People We Love

40. Samantha Spiro: Why We Protect Ourselves From the People We Love

In part one, we explored how love begins to collapse when pain isn’t met and how self-protection quietly replaces contact.In this second part, the conversation turns toward what actually allows intima...

17 Feb 53min

39. Samantha Spiro: When Pain Isn’t Met, Love Collapses

39. Samantha Spiro: When Pain Isn’t Met, Love Collapses

We’re taught how to perform, succeed, and compete, but not how to handle emotional pain.In this first part of my conversation with Samantha Spiro, we explore what actually happens when pain shows up i...

10 Feb 54min

38. Bonnie Diaz: What if partnership isn’t about leading or following, but about listening?

38. Bonnie Diaz: What if partnership isn’t about leading or following, but about listening?

In this episode of 34o, Henrik sits down with Bonnie Diaz, world-class ballroom champion, master educator, and creator of the 4D Partnership System, to explore what true connection really looks like, ...

3 Feb 1h

37. Wren: What if intimacy isn’t something we achieve — but something we allow?

37. Wren: What if intimacy isn’t something we achieve — but something we allow?

In this episode of 34o, Henrik is joined by Wren, an outdoor boudoir photographer whose work lives at the intersection of nature, embodiment and reclaiming pleasure beyond shame.Raised in a conservati...

27 Jan 1h 32min

36. 🇸🇪 Kalle Norwald: Varför relationer går sönder och vad vi ofta missar

36. 🇸🇪 Kalle Norwald: Varför relationer går sönder och vad vi ofta missar

ENGLISH:What happens to intimacy in a time when so many people feel stressed, disconnected, and unsure?In this episode of 34o, in Swedish, I’m joined by Kalle Norwald for a warm, honest and deeply ref...

20 Jan 59min

35. Lisa Näs: Intimacy without performance. Words without exploitation.

35. Lisa Näs: Intimacy without performance. Words without exploitation.

In this episode of 34o, I’m joined by Lisa Näs, journalist and long-time writer on sex, relationships and intimacy for women’s magazines.We talk about what happens behind the text:- How do you write a...

13 Jan 1h 1min

34. Why we love. Why it hurts

34. Why we love. Why it hurts

Why do we long for closeness and feel fear when it becomes real?Why can two people love each other deeply and still not be able to carry the same life?In this episode of 34o, Henrik reflects on love a...

6 Jan 9min

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