rethinking imposter syndrome
i got asked about imposter syndrome recently, there's definitely some overlap with comparing yourself to others (see previous video) but i made this video as an add on/extension. let me know your thou...
16 Aug 202521min
hot girls don't let comparison be the thief of joy
talking through the mental blocks that can occur when we get stuck on comparing ourselves to others in a way that hinders our ability to be HOT and HAVE FUN !!!03:33 - radical acceptance05:11 - practi...
31 Jul 202525min
what to do when you don't know what to do
that overwhelming "wtf" feeling01:54 - context can differ, dyanmic/feelings are usually consistent02:45 - its better to do something, rather than nothing03:12 - don’t let perfect be the enemy of good0...
23 Jul 202525min
growth doesn't have an aesthetic
a short video with a gentle reminder that your mental/spiritual/emotional growth doesn't have to look a certain way in order to be valid. maybe your physical and mental glow up happens at the same tim...
9 Jul 202511min
a woman's ego in dating ~ eating dim sum in wuhan
pairing an excerpt from my voice memo podcast series with this footage of me eating dim sum between a soundcheck and standby while i was on a job earlier this year in wuhan hehe ~ i mention fengshui c...
2 Jul 202512min
kindness is never weakness
don't let the haters stop you from doing ur thangfollow me on IG ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/dead or alive summer 2025 playlist !!!https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1lezLPXhmrrrs1wD4GzDnI?si=1...
25 Jun 202515min
indifference is the best revenge ╮( ˘_˘ )╭
when being the bigger person is overratedif you wish me bad, i wish you _____ !!!!01:53 - 04:25 - 1. define love, acknowledge your efforts04:25 - 05:21 - 2. what fantasy or potential did you become at...
18 Jun 202523min
MOVING TO A NEW CITY - should you move, dating, making new friends
slay habit trackers ☆ free downloadhttps://www.friendcrush.club/shop/p/hot-girl-slay-habits-e-bundlesubscribe for full episodes, exclusive episodes & perks! ♡patreon.com/amberakillahttps://podcasters...
3 Jun 202548min
